Dead Beat Parents

Dead beat parents should be illegal!!!  Seriously!  You don't involve yourself in their lives, school, sports.  You have NOOOO idea what their interests are, hobbies are, who their friends are.  You don't stop your bad habits or addictions to spend time with them.  And for those addicts they refuse to get clean because they now have this "great" cover up (in their fucked up minds anyways) that they use to dull the pain of not seeing their children.  REALLLYYYY????  Do you ever stop using YOUR children?  Your wants and needs always come before theirs.... mainly because YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THEIRS ARE!!!!    Do you even know how old they are.... nope you state their age wrong during one of your 2 minute conversations with them.  That you mandate you have because YOU are the PARENT! They are YOUR babies! Yeah.... only when it's convenient!  You don't support them emotionally, academically or financially.  As a matter of fact you will do everything in your power to dodge child support.  "Why should I pay child support when I don't see them" .... HMMMMM....... because they are YOUR BABIES!!  Oh wait... that doesn't apply here?  That's only when convenient for you too. And why don't you see them... because you choose NOT to!  But somehow that is the parents fault who is doing all of the things you aren't.

Can you imagine what would happen if everyone in Dead Beat Parents lives got together and shared stories?  It was be devastating for them and entertaining and probably vindicating for most.  Which we all deserve after dealing with your years of bullshit and games.  Chances are you would stop fighting at that point which your children deserve... you know a childhood.  That thing you deny them because they are YOURS!  Because that makes about as much sense as our damn judicial system allowing you to stay in their lives just to continue to fuck it up because you share DNA.

The judicial system for dead beat parents truly sucks!  Just as bad as the dead beat parent themselves.  They protect the parents and not the children.... because the parents have "rights".  Yes to FUCK UP children's lives!  That's what they have the right to do.  We wonder why the world today is so screwed up.  All the sue happy people who have changed our laws so they have because so twisted.  Not to mention its not a judicial system in so many places it is the who you can pay off or who is the better bull shitter system.  Yes... gives me hope for our children.  I can only imagine what it will be like for our grandchildren.

This one is dedicated to all the DEAD BEAT PARENTS out there!  May you all find the same big cliff and go for a jog giving the children of today a chance at LIFE :)  Because that is what they deserve and that is what a TRUE PARENT would give them... a LIFE!

Boobs

I am getting dressed and my 2 year old comes in and says "Mom I help you, I help you Mom" and I am putting my bra on.  I said ok.  So she adjust my straps and then pushes my boobs side to side and then pushes on the front.  Then she helped me put my shirt on and pushes my boobs up.  I laughed thinking what is she doing and where did she get it from.  So I am getting dressed again today and I am "adjusting" myself (yes boys we adjust our set as well) as I put my bra and shirt on.  DINGGG!!!  Light bulb went on....  Monkey see Monkey do!  I laughed so hard I thought I was going to pee myself.  Good to know that my 2 year old will know how to adjust herself properly :)  

Oh a life in the day of a 2 year old in the Casey house. Gotta love it!

Finding your inner BITCH

This is why I EMBRACE being called a BITCH!  Absolutely I am :)  There is nothing more attractive and empowering than a woman who knows what she wants and is comfortable in her own skin.  You don't need to be a woman's activist to stand up for women and most importantly yourself.  Because, I equally stand up for men.  I was in class and one of my classmates had a tattoo and I loved it.... BE TRUE TO WHO YOU ARE.  I couldn't of said it better.  The biggest hurdle is finding yourself and then embrace every inch of her.

Tips on how to find yourself:

-Stop listening to what society and others have to tell you on how you should act or who you should be.
-Don't compromise yourself for ANYONE... not your spouse, your children, your peers (the whole point is finding YOU)
-Find things and people that make you smile.  They are the parts of the foundation.  You need to start doing things YOU enjoy and be with people that appreciate YOU for YOU and add something to YOUR life.
-Be selfish without taking or hurting others.  This is about YOU.  If you can't find you and happiness within your body you can't be happy with others nor, can anyone truly be happy with you.

Those are a few of my tips on how to find your inner BITCH!  I hope you find her because she is amazing :)

Big Boy

Jack is officially a Big Boy :))))  He has lifted his leg all week to pee no more squatting like a girl.  Momma's only boy isn't a baby anymore.  So proud!

My Day

I officially started classes again yesterday... But as most of you already know I had a day from HELL with court stuff.  So I didn't even log into my classes.  I have my first in class classes today.  2 online 2 classroom.  Intro to Women's Studies and MultiCultural America.  Super excited.  Someday I will live in MultiCountries :) Currently I am a full time student.  I also signed up to do an at home school for Medical Transcriptionist/Editing.  I started my blog.  I am a facebook addict as you know.  Mother of 7, who just started school last week.  We had our first JV soccer game last night for our oldest.  3 more starting fall soccer.  One in marching band, two in regular band, 3 in Liturgical choir, 2 dogs, 2 puppies (not potty-trained) a 2 year old that stays at home with me.  Court stuff back in action (Thank you to the most selfish "mom" in the world) so who knows what that will bring back to our lives.  Did I mention housework?

So today....  I have done some of my housemommy duties, played with my 2 year old, made lunch, started my blog, got ready for school, did some of my paperwork for misc things, FB of course, made some phone calls, chatted with a few of my favorite people, tended to the dogs and now am going to take a much needed break to try and get some MAURY in :) 

Tootles to all of you.....  I have class all night.  So i'm gone until tomorrow.

BTW.... Grammer Nazi's NOT welcome.  My brain often types faster than my fingers and Im a horrible speller, lack proper punctuation etc.  Ok so they are welcome but be prepared for me to dish back on NOT caring that it is wrong.  :)

PEE... Yes pee

First totally personal post!  All my nurse friends......  Why when I drink coffee and I pee it smells like coffee?  When I drink Rockstar it also comes out the same color it goes in?  But everything else smells and looks like pee.  It bothers me.... I have to learn why!

DOs and DONTs on my blog

So I should probably put the DO's and DONT's of my blog on here somewhere.... It's pretty simple.  I am a really open girl.  Not much offends me or is off limits.  I will talk about what most people think about but, they just don't do it publicly.  I feel life wouldn't be so taboo if people were more open about how they feel or what they think.  Feel free to openly express your feelings on this blog.  This is the place to do it.  :)  Beware.... I may offend you.  It is not personal.  I just sometimes feel very passionately about certain topics and will express it exactly how I feel.